Bill – from 'villain' to 'hero'
“That beautiful girl with the blonde hair”
| Student | Bill | Date | 23 September 2008 |
|---|---|---|---|
| Observer | Meegan (teacher) |
While we were waiting for taxis, Bill sat beside me and we started to chat. Historically, Bill would not have done this. On a number of previous occasions when I have tried to talk to Bill he has been unwilling to talk to me even when I have asked him about things I know are of interest to him.
He asked, “Do you know the white girl with blonde hair called Gina”? “Yes,” I replied. “She is very beautiful,” said Bill. I agreed, adding that she was a very kind, sweet girl.
He asked, “How can I be friends with her?” I said that it was a good idea to talk to her about things that she likes. I added that she was quite quiet and he may need to be a patient friend and wait for her to respond.
He seemed happy with this response.
Development 26 September 2008 by Graeme (teacher)
After discussing this story with Meegan, I thought that I should talk to Bill about how he could approach Gina. I decided to begin by asking Bill about what he thought was a good way to approach her. Skipping over a simple greeting, his first idea was to give her a gift. Initially, I thought this was a great idea! He then explained that the gift could be a book about the evil cats from his imaginary world. When I suggested that she might not like such a gift, his face was awash with surprise. We then discussed that different people often like different things. I explained that just because he likes evil cats, it was not certain that she would. I further suggested that he should find out what she likes if he wanted to give her a gift. After overcoming the shock that someone might not like a book about evil cats, he happily considered my suggestions.
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